Do Closing Skills Still Work? Inside the World of Objections and Concerns When you become a great persuader, you will view objections differently than most people do. You will even welcome objections and enjoy handling them. Why? You will…
Do Closing Skills Still Work? Inside the World of Objections and Concerns When you become a great persuader, you will view objections differently than most people do. You will even welcome objections and enjoy handling them. Why? You will…
What If The Competition Has The Same Price? Charisma is influence. In other words, getting others to do what you want them to do and like doing it. People get uneasy when you talk about influence, but just like…
Negotiation: Face-to-Face, by Phone or via E-mail In our age of ever-expanding communication possibilities, researchers have been drawn to answer the question of which communication mode is most likely to lend itself to successful negotiation. Their answer? It depends.…
Reduce to the Ridiculousness Reduce to the Ridiculousness (JND): This technique involves paring down your request to something that seems manageable, easier to comprehend or easier to monetize. Let’s say you are trying to convince someone to purchase a…
Never fight on price. “Door-in-the-face” is one of the most common techniques for implementing the Law of Contrast. Basically, an initially large and almost unreasonable request is made, likely to be declined?hence the “door slammed-in-the-face” as the prospect rejects…
Never fight on price. Price in not the issue? you are the issue. Only 6% of things are bought on price. Anybody can fight on price. Let’s learn 14 techniques to make price a non-issue. “Price is what you…
The more skillful a person is in the use of language, the more persuasive they will be. People are persuaded by us based on the words we use. Words affect our perceptions, our attitudes, our beliefs, and our emotions.…
Did you ever leave an interaction saying to yourself, “That could have gone better?” Do you want to improve your leadership, interviewing, sales, and trust building skills for every aspect of your life? A counter-intelligence expert shows readers how…
On this episode, Kurt and Steve interview Jonah Berger. Jonah is a Marketing Professor at the Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania and a world-renowned expert on word of mouth, social influence, consumer behavior, and how products, ideas, and…
On this episode, Kurt and Steve read some listener mail from an business owner who finds himself dealing with a lot of calls from prospects just wanting quotes. They discuss how the power of We all have them in our…
On this episode, Kurt and Steve read some listener mail from an business owner who finds himself dealing with a lot of calls from prospects just wanting quotes. They discuss how the power of “no” can draw prospects into a…
On this episode, Kurt and Steve interview Rob Kendall, of www.conversationexpert.com. Rob has devoted his life to understanding how humans converse with one another and what makes them go wrong…and right. Rob its the author of BlameStorming and WorkStorming. If…
The food industry is now more successful than it has ever been. Food is cheap and readily accessible, and many of us are eating A LOT of it. On this episode, Brian Wansink of the of the Food and Brand…
After last week’s interview with Chris Voss, Kurt and Steve dive deeper into negotiations and how emotions can hijack them. This has a negative connotation with most…but why not be the hijacker here? Emotions can be a powerful tool in…
Persuasion Tool #10 – Mirror and Matching Let’s finish up the 4R’s resistance. We’ve talked about creating a compelling reason, managing risk, putting resources into perspective and now the final R is representative or you. Could it be caused by…
Persuasion Tool #8 – Risk Reversal Let’s continue learning a few tools that will help you deal with resistance. Why do people say “NO”? Why do you get resistance when it is a perfect match? We talked about one of…
If you can’t persuade yourself, you’re not very good at persuading other people. Understand the universe will not reward you physically until you believe it mentally. Persuasion Tool #3 – Self-Persuasion Let’s talk about mindset, which is basically self-persuasion or…
On episode 127 of Maximize Your Influence, Kurt and Steve start by discussing a recent article, the 7 Mental Blocks to Being Rich. They then transition to part two of their series on qualities of great leaders. Intuition is a…
After speculating about good dining in San Francisco and briefly insulting their listeners there, Kurt and Steve discuss a recent article about whether great leaders are born or made. They then launch into a discussion about the qualities of good…
The Power of “Yes” Use questions that will create “yeses.” As you create your marketing and persuasive presentations, you must engineer the number of times you get your audience to raise their hands, say yes, or nod their heads. How…
We are firm believers that we all have greatness within us. We believe that we each have within ourselves unwritten books, un-started businesses, brilliant ideas, great inventions, charitable ideas, and untapped energies. But sometimes we have a hard time knowing…
If you’re like most people, you don’t really enjoy paying taxes. A study in the UK recently discovered how to vastly increase the rate of collected taxes, just by adding one simple sentence to collection notices. Kurt and Steve discuss…
Is optimism overrated? A recent study from the University of Utah thinks so. Kurt and Steve discuss the study and what it means for persuaders. Some of us are better negotiators than others. Some of us respond differently to different…
Do you know somebody who is always blaming other people for their problems? Is it you? The fact is, we all do it. And sometimes we’re right. A recent article, however, shows why blaming others is not productive…even when it’s…
It’s always helpful to learn more about what successful people do in their daily lives. In this episode, Kurt and Steve highlight three key lessons we can learn form successful people. For this week’s Persuasion IQ question, Kurt and Steve…
A recent study published by Psych Central discusses how to make new habits stick. The article goes over a variety of techniques that will dramatically increase your chances of implementing new habits. Check it out here. On episode 82, Kurt…
Why has Apple been so successful? On this episode, Kurt and Steve discuss recent news about Apple’s upcoming conference and whey Apple has been able to create such a loyal following of clients. They apply this to how persuaders can…
We’ve all experienced it. That nervous, unsettling feeling right before we start to negotiate. Leading up to a negotiation, most of us expect conflict. We expect to have to give up valuable things that we don’t want to lose. But…
How does personal space affect your ability to persuade? What about touch? In various cultures and depending on the sex of the person you are talking to, touch can be a valuable persuasive tool. It lowers mental barriers and puts…