It’s Either Rizz (Charisma) or Fizz (Dull) #2 Do You Attract or Repel Others? It’s Either The Rizz or Fizz. The skill of charisma can propel you into leadership and success. When someone is charismatic, they can connect, bond,…
It’s Either Rizz (Charisma) or Fizz (Dull) #2 Do You Attract or Repel Others? It’s Either The Rizz or Fizz. The skill of charisma can propel you into leadership and success. When someone is charismatic, they can connect, bond,…
Got The Rizz (Power of Charisma) PART 1 Have you ever noticed how some people can lead without effort? People instantly like them and want to be around them. Have you seen them enter a room, and everyone notices?…
The Unknown And Forgotten Rules of Negotiation When negotiating, you have to be prepared for anything. You need to know the ins and outs, the wants and needs of both sides. The more you prepare, the more knowledge you…
When Is It Time To Shut Up? Knowing when to shut up and stop talking in persuasion is a major blunder. Are you able to take their temperature, gauge their interest, or respond to their needs? Are you the…
The Science and Mastery of Change – Interview With John Fisher You are trying to influence someone to change and improve their life. It will enhance every aspect of their life, BUT all you get is resistance. What is…
How to Persuade Kids, Teenagers, And Those Without Frontal Lobes? Influencing and motivating children requires a different set of persuasion tools. Their brain is not fully developed until they are 25. This means you have to adapt to their…
The Value Sale – How to Prove ROI and Win More Deals – Interview With Ian Campbell How do you build value so you don’t have to fight on price? Only rookies fight on price. We all know you…
Why Powerpoint Makes Us Stupid And How To Fix It I know you love to use Powerpoint. Those slides make everything so much easier, and you won’t forget anything. You don’t need as much preparation time, BUT your audience…
Quickly Simplify Your Message – Davina Stanley Interview Have you noticed the dramatic changes in presentations, communication, and training? The focus used to be on education. The latest research reveals that we need to spend more time grabbing your…
Using Hostage Negotiation Skills In Business – Does Silence still work? Is silence overused and abused? Yes, but you still need to use. When it is used in the wrong way or with the wrong person, you can come…
Dumb Is More Persuasive Than Smart – Dumb Is Smart The thought of using the “dumb is smart” technique in persuasion and sales may seem counterintuitive because your prospect wants to deal with the expert. This strategy has two…
How To Resist Those Super Persuasive People I want to explore ways to resist another person’s unethical persuasive attempt on this podcast. This is good to know for you as a person and as a persuader. As a person,…
How to Leverage The Liar – Detecting The Lie And Dealing With Deception Influential individuals have the ability to understand nonverbal cues. By learning to read body language, you can gain insights and adjust your approach accordingly. Look for…
How To Influence As The Underdog (Dark Horse) – The David And Goliath Effect Join me for this week’s podcast on How To Influence As The Underdog (Dark Horse) – The David And Goliath Effect. I will explain the…
Are You Charismatic Or A Psychopath? You Might Be Surprised Charismatic individuals and psychopaths have mastered the ability to influence others. Both have the tools and traits to get others to see their point of view. 10 insights into…
Selling through Resistance and Stigma – Interview With Franco Perez Why do people tend to resist you? For some reason, the moment they sense you are trying to sell them or persuade them to do something – they go…
Personal Space, Proxemics and Violation of Boundaries – Guilty? Studies show how people use, react to, configure, and occupy the space around them. We all want our own space and feel uncomfortable when people violate our personal territory. While…
The Trifecta (3 Traits) of a Perfect Sales Person Selling is changing every day. This is due to advancements in technology, shifts in consumer trust, and evolving markets. You speaks to me – Effects of generic-you in creating resonance…
How Do You Persuade And Sell That Influencer, Energetic, Spirited, Expressive, Yellow Type Personality? Adapting your selling approach to customers who are high in Influencer (DISC) and have an Expressive type personality can be beneficial in building trust and…
How Do You Persuade And Sell That Harmonious, Steadiness, Relater, Type Personality Adapting your selling approach to customers who are high in Steadiness (DISC) and have a C-type personality can be beneficial in building trust and increasing your chances…
How Do You Persuade And Sell That Red, Dominant, Driver, Direct, And Assertive Type Personality Adapting your selling approach to customers who are high in Dominant (DISC) and have a Red (Color Code) personality can be beneficial in building…
How Do You Persuade And Sell That White, Conscientiousness, Philosopher, Systematic, Analyzer Type Personality Adapting your selling approach to customers who are high in Conscientiousness (DISC) and have a white (Color Code) personality can be beneficial in building trust…
How Do You Sell And Adapt To Boomers Gen X Millennial And Gen Z We already know you should adjust your influence and persuade people how they want to be persuaded. This is true for personality, culture, and especially…
Get Unstuck – How To Eliminate Fear, Anxiety, And Worry In Your Life Overcoming the fear of failure is essential to unlocking one’s potential for success. Understanding your EQ, anxiety, fear, and just getting stuck on your way to…
Brain Chemicals That Help/Hurt Influence – Cortisol, Oxytocin, Dopamine, And Serotonins You find yourself in a tense team meeting, striving to defend your stance on a significant project, but you begin to sense that you’re losing ground. Your volume…
Top Deception And Dishonesty Tactics While it is essential to maintain ethical practices in persuasion, it’s important to be aware of common deceptive techniques that some salespeople may employ. Understanding these tactics can help you recognize them and avoid…
The Missing And Forgotten Tool Of Success And Wealth Imagine a life where fear has no power over you. A life where you confront your fears head-on, just like the most successful individuals. It all starts with a crucial…
4The Key Factors (And Mistakes) Of A Successful Negotiation Let’s talk about where negotiation fits into the world of persuasion and the difference between the two. Persuasion occurs when your ideas are so convincing that the other party adopts…
4 Time Management And Productivity Hacks – Gain an extra hour a day It’s the old “80/20 Rule.” The most highly successful people expend 20 percent of the effort and get 80 percent of the results, while the less…
AI #2 – Insulting Compliments – Weighing the Pros and Cons of Charisma Are you tired of feeling like your success is just out of reach? It’s time to unlock your full potential with the power of charisma! Charisma…
Do You Work With A Confident Idiot? How To Persuade Through The Dunning–Kruger Effect Have you ever met someone utterly clueless about their incompetence? Or worse, have you ever worked with someone who thinks they’re a genius but can’t…
How To Persuade, Understand, And Sell A Hangry, Mean Person Moods, hunger and emotion can affect our thinking, judgment, and willingness to say yes. When the person you are trying to persuade is in a good mood or feeling…
FOMO vs Trust – 10 Ways To Create Instant Action FOMO or the fear of missing out, is human nature 101. When anyone feels their freedom to act or choose is restricted, they will attempt to restore it. With…
Brain Selling – How Current Brain Research Empowers You To Influence The Subconscious Mind We think we are logical creatures, but most of the time, we don’t know why we do what we do. The majority of influence involves…
The Iceberg Of Influence – Those Hidden Persuasion Subconscious Triggers Sales professionals use words carefully. They know that one wrong word can send their prospect’s mind somewhere else and lose them the sale. Some examples of language that salespeople…
Keys to Instant Courage – Fortune Favors The Bold (Brave) Having courage (or being brave) does not mean you don’t feel fear. It means you have the heart and emotional stability to face the fear and do what’s needed…
World Trust Trends and Tools Trust is critical in persuasion. Unfortunately, we live in a day and age when people are more skeptical and mistrustful than ever. Twenty years ago, the mindset was: “I trust you; give me a…
Why Politicians Are Not Leaders And Have Low Trust These skills are essential in persuasion and leadership. What about managers and politicians? Are they leaders? Do people trust them? Probably not. What needs to change? Join me for this…
DITF – Top Sales And Persuasion Mistakes To Fix This Year We were taught through the years that closing skills were all you needed to persuade and sell. You had to learn more closing skills if you did not…
DITF – When, How, Can It Backfire (Door In The Face Technique) “Door-in-the-face” is one of the most common techniques for implementing the Law of Contrast. An initially large and almost unreasonable request is made, likely to be declined—hence…
The Secret Sauce of Influence Optimistic persuaders outpersuade pessimistic persuaders every time. Not only is optimism essential to influencing others, but is also a critical for success in life. Optimism is more than a positive mental attitude. It is…
The Quickest Way To Get A YES Life is change; persuasion is change. As a Persuader, you must be able to create and motivate change. Understanding human nature is knowing that most people will resist change and burrow into…
How To Get Out Of A Speeding Ticket Persuaders know emotion will override logic every time. I will assume here (I know I shouldn’t do that) that you can form a logical argument. Reading emotions and your emotional intelligence…
Conversation Starters For People to Like You A great persuader can connect with anyone in thirty seconds or less. First impressions take only seconds to form, but they last a lifetime. This is a critical skill to develop because…
7 Reasons People Don’t Trust You All things being equal, people will do business with, and refer business to, those people they know, like, and trust. People choose healthier food when with outsiders for fear of being negatively judged…
The Boomerang Effect And Why People Resist You Join me for this week’s podcast on Shut-Up And Sell: No More Data Dump. Do you repel people? Most people say no. Howeve statistics show that this is happening to you.…
Shut-Up And Sell: No More Data Dump Join me for this week’s podcast on Shut-Up And Sell: No More Data Dump. During this podcast, I will reveal how to know when it is time to ask for their business.…
How To Increase Meeting (Zoom) Participation, Engagement And Influence As a persuader, you need to help your audience be one step closer to taking action. As a Power Persuader, your goal is to decrease the distance someone has to…
The 3 Keys To Increase Your Power Of Persuasion The moment people sense that you are attempting to persuade them, their resistance increases in size and strength. To counter this tendency, persuasion and sales must take place below the…
Negotiation Techniques, Tactics, Tips and Psychological Tricks With Marshall Wilkinson Join me for this week’s podcast cast on Negotiation Techniques, Tactics, Tips, and Psychological Tricks With Marshall Wilkinson. Marshall has negotiated over 2 billion dollars in contracts. We will…
Sales Words That Destroy Influence And Repel People The Law of Verbal Packaging states that the more skillful a person is in the use of language, the more persuasive they will be. People are persuaded by us based on…
How Costco (And Other Retail Stores) Get Your Money What are the subconscious triggers that cause you to buy more? A Face can reveal if you’re rich or poor Join me for this week’s podcast as I talk about…
PQ Skill #5: How Your Personal Power Leverages Your Ability To Persuade Appearance affects your authority. External objects and the environment also affect perceptions of power. It is therefore wise for all of us to check out our appearance…
Influential Buzzwords – Interview With David Wood Are you congruent? Do you feel authentic? Does your prospect think you are genuine? Are you coming across as truthful? These are the new buzzwords that your prospect is looking for… Join…
The MOST important aspect of Trust is credibility It’s harder to gain credibility nowadays than it ever was in the past. Most people are fairly sophisticated and have grown cynical with all the exaggerated and unsubstantiated hype that is…
How To Use Images and Symbols To Persuade Below The Radar To maintain order of the world, our brains link objects, gestures, and symbols with our feelings, memories, and life experiences. We mentally associate ourselves with such things as…
Synchronized Beliefs Very closely related to directing our thoughts are our beliefs or belief systems. Just as airplanes have guidance systems to direct them, so do we have systems guiding and shaping what we think, do, and believe. Without…
Leadership Expert – Jon Gordon Jon Gordon’s best-selling books and talks have inspired readers and audiences around the world. His principles have been put to the test by numerous NFL, NBA, MLB coaches and teams, Fortune 500 companies, school…
Inner-Charisma – Your Inside Dictates Your Outside Charismatics have the ability to focus quickly in the moment similar to great athletes. To master the area of focus and concentration, we must implement what athletes do before, during and after…
Empowering Others & Contagious Cooperation Many think that when they get into positions of leadership or prominence that others should be serving them or looking up to them. This is a great way to turn people off and decrease…
Presence – What Do You Radiate? Passion is very contagious. When you transfer this passion, the people around you start to radiate that passion. They perform better, if it is at work, it is no longer work. They become…
Rapport: The Instant Connection Rapport is the secret ingredient that makes us feel a harmonious link with someone else. It is equivalent to being on the same wavelength with the other person. Rapport is the key that makes mutual…
Similarity: Similar Is Familiar Similarity theory states that familiar objects are more liked than less familiar ones. The same holds true with people: We like people who are similar to us. This theory seems to hold true whether the…
g=”no” allowfullscreen=”allowfullscreen”> Emotional States: Understanding Feelings and Moods Charismatic people know there is a fine line between logic and emotion. To influence someone you have to have both. Emotion will override logic every time. I am going to assume…
Episode 464 -How AI (Artificial Intelligence) And ChatGBT Will Help/Hurt Sales And Persuasion
How AI (Artificial Intelligence) And ChatGBT Will Help/Hurt Sales And Persuasion AI has the potential to revolutionize the sales process and provide numerous benefits to salespeople. By leveraging AI tools to automate routine tasks, analyze data, and provide personalized…